good news

Jan. 20th, 2009 10:12 am
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On this auspicious day (ding, dong, the 8-year reign of idiocy is over), I am very pleased to report that the blood tests and ultrasounds came out perfectly normal, so much so that no amnio is needed after all (insert big sigh of relief), and...it's a boy! The pictures leave, er, no doubt. F will be thrilled, he really wanted a little brother (who will, no doubt, idolize him).

So now we need to start thinking of boy's names. Given the new puppy in the house, I can't help but think of Sean Connery in the third Indiana Jones movie: "We named the *dog* Griffin..." "The DOG?"

hee hee. C didn't think that was so funny.

Still.

Date: 2009-01-20 03:45 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] berk1973.livejournal.com
That sounds wonderful! No extra hazardous tests when you don't need them. Hope this news makes it easier to relax and enjoy the months ahead!

And a boy! That will be so much fun for Forest....and for all of you of course.
Good thing I didn't send the dresses! Newborn is quite young to start with drag ;-)

Date: 2009-01-20 06:08 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chelidon.livejournal.com
Thanks, and yes, it's a big relief -- even if the chance of a serious (miscarriage-inducing) problem is 1 in 400, that's a small but real chance that we could have that happen with an otherwise perfectly healthy baby. The amnio appointment was scheduled for right after the ultrasound if we'd decided to go ahead with it. Divination seemed to say "let what is in the dark stay in the dark, don't pierce the veil," but we were waiting for all of the test results, including today's ultrasound, before finally deciding, and I'm glad we did as we did.

And as a brief ramble, it's funny -- until at least sometime in the later 1800s (industrial age), all boy and girl babies, once they outgrew swaddling clothes and for the first few years at least, tended to wear what were basically dresses or smocks, none of this sex-typed clothing modern society seems to be so concerned about.

Here is a link to a very elaborate boy's dress from the 1850s (http://dlxs.lib.wayne.edu/cgi/i/image/image-idx?bbdbid=568&xc=1&c=aict&c=cfai&c=dhhcc&c=djg&c=hcc&c=heartic&c=hfhcc&c=hmcc&c=map&c=mbd&c=ntgl&c=rcn&c=sampleic&c=vmc&back=back1232474603&chaperone=S-HFHCC-X-76.104.8+EM02A76_104_8D.JP2&ox=0&oy=0&lastres=1&res=1&width=600&height=900&maxw=1200&maxh=1800&subview=getsid&view=bbentry&viewid=EM02A76_104_8D.JP2&entryid=x-76.104.8&cc=hfhcc&quality=1&resnum=5&evl=full-image&image.x=105&image.y=266), in the Henry Ford museum. Hard to imagine that being seen as acceptable today, even though our views about gender are supposedly so much more "enlightened."

Date: 2009-01-20 07:10 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] morrigandaughtr.livejournal.com
I mean about the baby. Not necessarily the dress. ;-)

Date: 2009-01-21 06:47 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] berk1973.livejournal.com
That is a really cute dress! But not for kids :-). Yep those were the ages that children were dressed as mini adults and treated likewise....you want to play....NO, sit down!

As a girl (and a girl's mother) I am thankful for this age in which we women are not restricted to just dresses and skirts anymore!

Date: 2009-01-26 04:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] hrhqod1.livejournal.com
I'm so happy for you guys. May you all continue in health and happiness.

Date: 2009-01-20 04:19 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] snakey.livejournal.com
Congratulations, that's wonderful news! :D

Date: 2009-01-20 06:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chelidon.livejournal.com
Yay, yes! Thanks!

Date: 2009-01-20 04:19 pm (UTC)

Date: 2009-01-20 06:10 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chelidon.livejournal.com
:) Baby's about 8 oz or so right now, and growing every day. Quite a mover, too, which is normal at this age, but it was so cool to see him doing his little calisthenics!

Date: 2009-01-20 04:25 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ravenedgewalker.livejournal.com
wheeeeee! I'm so pleased! (and ....letting out the breath I hadn't realized I'd been holding).

Give C lots of love from me - and as ever, lots for you too!

Date: 2009-01-20 06:11 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chelidon.livejournal.com
Thanks very much! And yeah, I, too, didn't realize how stressed I had been about this until it was over!

Date: 2009-01-21 12:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ravenedgewalker.livejournal.com
ah my dear...time for you to relax a little and breath before all those broken nights sleep ;>

Very Happy Aunt-To-Be (Again!)

Date: 2009-01-20 04:54 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lylythe-strega.livejournal.com
It was such a relief to see those pics!

Yay! Love!

Re: Very Happy Aunt-To-Be (Again!)

Date: 2009-01-20 06:12 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chelidon.livejournal.com
Yes, very much yay! And a big sigh of relief, too :)

Date: 2009-01-20 06:25 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kitten-goddess.livejournal.com
Congratulations!!! Yay you and C!!!

Date: 2009-01-20 10:31 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chelidon.livejournal.com
:) Thanks! And all kinds of good adventures to come!

Date: 2009-01-20 07:19 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ravenhbh.livejournal.com
How wonderful for all of you! And especially on such a day as this!
:-***

Date: 2009-01-20 10:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chelidon.livejournal.com
Thanks! We are very, very thrilled :)

Date: 2009-01-20 07:38 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jennlynn-green.livejournal.com
WOOO-HOOOO! That is wonderful news, I'm glad that the amnio is not needed...that seemed scary.

All my best to you, C, F and the new little fella!

Date: 2009-01-20 10:06 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chelidon.livejournal.com
Thanks very much! Me, too, it's nice not to have to worry about that, even if statistically it's supposed to be pretty darn safe. This kid is already a statistical rarity, so I'm not sure that statistics are much use in this situation... ;>

Date: 2009-01-20 10:17 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jennlynn-green.livejournal.com
Heh...well it's your child and like begets like, no? You're not exactly one for conformity so why would your little one be?

Date: 2009-01-20 10:28 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chelidon.livejournal.com
Good point -- it's a fair cop.

Date: 2009-01-20 08:25 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sagamockingbird.livejournal.com
Congratulations! Having two sons is great saith the mother of amazing men.

Date: 2009-01-20 08:26 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sagamockingbird.livejournal.com
Doh! Make that TWO amazing men.

Date: 2009-01-20 10:28 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chelidon.livejournal.com
C says that luckily for me, she is quite fond of the men in my family ;> There's a part of me that's a little wistful about not having the experience of raising a daughter (unless we adopt, I suppose), but raising F has been such an amazing and wonderful experience, and I am thrilled that he's going to have a brother and a sibling, something neither C nor I experienced.

Date: 2009-01-20 09:30 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] raqs.livejournal.com
heh. that's awesome, but you really deserved a daughter. ;-)

the boys will adore each other.

Date: 2009-01-20 10:00 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chelidon.livejournal.com
Heh -- you may be right, on both counts.

Also, I can't help noticing that Roth's little girl will be almost our boy's age. Now *there's* a scary thought. I also have visions of Roth coming to track down my son for compromising his daughter's virtue....(or vice versa, after all, she'll be the older, more experienced woman ;>)
From: [identity profile] shapeinthclouds.livejournal.com
As your sons journey on to days we'll never know, their names; those from you, those they give each other, those the trees on your hill remember and retell, will be what I know as the finest gifts you've given to the world.

Date: 2009-01-21 03:41 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] liminal-spaces.livejournal.com
Wonderful news, and wonderful news, and wonderful news!

Date: 2009-01-21 04:55 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] erskine.livejournal.com
Yay!!!

Don't name him Erskine!!!!

Date: 2009-01-22 07:55 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lasirena23.livejournal.com
I am so excited to hear this! Much joy and good thoughts to you all!

Date: 2009-01-22 06:48 pm (UTC)
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