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...or perhaps Oliver ("Bloom County").

With all that's happening lately, I forgot to write this up:

I'm playing "single dad" this week and into next, while my partner is off teaching in Minnesota. And I am really loving it. Mostly. This morning I came down from my shower to check on my son, and he'd gotten up early, had already eaten breakfast, and was on my partner's iBook -- playing a game, I figured (usually alternates between Reader Rabbit math or reading, and some kind of shoot-em-up). But I had...a hunch, so I ambled over, asked "whatcha doing?" And he said, very quickly, "nothing," and started turning the laptop away from me.... Uh-huh. "So, whatcha doing?" I repeated, walking around to the front of the screen. "Nothing," he said, closing the laptop. Right. I took the laptop away, opened it up, and saw...a form for entering credit card information to purchase a game. With his name and a bunch of numbers entered. Did I mention my son is six? Oh, so very much "no." He's been told quite clearly not to ever enter any of his personal information online for any reason. Now, thankfully, he has no idea yet what the credit card stuff is about, he'd just been playing a "free" game, had clicked on the "buy the full game" button, and was just entering some numbers to see what would happen, but still...

So computer privileges go away for a couple of days, in part for doing something that he knows is a big no (entering his personal info online), and in part for trying afterwards to claim it was just an "accident." Right, and it was an accident to have entered in his full name and address and fake credit card numbers, and an accident he tried to hide it from me when I walked up.

My son is a very, very good kid, quite honest and truthful, but...I know what's coming next, sooner than I expect..."gee, I don't have a credit card, so all I have to do is figure out how to hack it." See, I was a first-gen hacker myself, way back in the day, and once upon a time, I can say with no false modesty, I was very, very good, one of the trailblazers, when there was a clear difference between "hackers" and "crackers." But that was in fact a more innocent time...heck, they hadn't even passed laws covering much of what we all did back then. Some of what I got away with would result in a visit from the men in black today. So, I have to try to instilll a sense of fear in my son, when I know darn well it's an uphill battle, and when I admire the impulse to tweak authority and game the system.

Oi. Karma's a real bitch, I tell ya.

Date: 2006-02-25 12:48 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] erskine.livejournal.com
"Don't MAKE me go and get all parental on yo' ass..."

Date: 2006-02-27 02:07 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chelidon.livejournal.com
Ah-yup. Or in this case, perhaps "here, let me give you a few pointers back from the stone age..." ;>

But seriously, it's always creepy and somewhat appalling to hear your father come out of your mouth. Yikes.

Date: 2006-02-25 04:08 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kitten-goddess.livejournal.com
Unfortunately, fear of authority must be learned. Otherwise, he may suffer severe punishment soon or late from said authority for disobedience.

Comment and Question.....

Date: 2006-02-26 11:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] storm-and-raven.livejournal.com
Hi Kinsman,

Having fun with the boy? Unfortunately, our children are going to be the ones trying to clean up the monumental mess that is our government and our country. It ain't gonna be easy, and it sure ain't gonna happen through the *standard* channels.....

He's just practicing now for later..... Hmmmm...wonder what the statistical probability is that he could get a correct combo of numbers complete with matching it to the appropriate credit card on his first attempt????

Pretty high, I'd say.

Also, off on another topic, your mention of a *Residency* in NH lit a fire under my a**, and I am now interested in doing my training at DHMC. What this means is that I would need to do a rotation much, much sooner than April '07. More like August of this year. So.....are you guyz still willing to have me up there???? And if you are, please let me know soon, because I have to turn in my request list on March 1st!!!

Hope you and your son have a great time!!!!
Luvya!!!!!

Re: Comment and Question.....

Date: 2006-02-27 02:06 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chelidon.livejournal.com
Hell yes, this country needs more creative troublemakers...I just don't want him to get in too much trouble ;>

August would be grand -- I'll double-check with the other denizens when they return from their various far-flung flingings, but I'd say go ahead and go for it. And DHMC is the most amazing hospital...Claudia certainly has more first-hand info, but they seem to be first-rate, all the way across the board. Speaking of a doctor in the house, can you send me your email addy, I can't seem to find it...thanks.

Re: Comment and Question.....

Date: 2006-02-28 02:25 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] storm-and-raven.livejournal.com
How about I give you a call sometime soon???? Tell me a good time to call briefly during the evening.....

Re: Comment and Question.....

Date: 2006-02-28 05:22 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chelidon.livejournal.com
Sounds good to me. I'm around pretty much full-time. I head out tomorrow nighrt to pick up
Claudia, about 6, will be back home by 9pm. Otherwise, I should be home pretty much 24/7...

Date: 2006-02-28 07:08 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ardaraith.livejournal.com
hehe
fruit doesn't fall far, does it? ;-)

Date: 2006-02-28 07:38 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chelidon.livejournal.com
Nope, it don't. 'course, there's good and bad to that...

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