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chelidon ([personal profile] chelidon) wrote2008-12-24 03:43 pm

big news

Now that most folks are off for the holidays and away from their computers, I'll take this quiet time to post some news...

So I've been pretty quiet the last several months. Partly that's just massive busy -- just this last week we've been through the culmination of two year's worth of a project at work, a few feet of snow, hasty tractor repairs, the Winter Revels performances, the last month brought a new puppy (see previous post), and the last six months brought a few zillion other things and happenings, most of them quite wonderful.

But another reason for quiet has been just breathing and hoping. That takes a lot of time and energy. Now that we're past the end of the first trimester, I can tell you that my partner Claudia is pregnant, and the baby is due on or about Summer Solstice. Those of you who know some of our history of the last number of years know that miscarriage, cancer and the simple realities of getting into our 40s, made this something that we both thought and were told was basically impossible, and which we had pretty much given up hoping for. Having tried the whole in vitro route, the docs had told us the chances were beyond miniscule that we'd be able to have another child, and with sorrow, we had let that hope go. In fact, just this last year we finally gave away the last of our baby stuff. Ha. The universe has a really incredible sense of humor...and is endlessly surprising, and infinitely creative.

So please, if you would, think good thoughts in our direction, for Claudia and the new little person growing in her, that they both may be healthy and strong. There are never any guarantees, but so far all appears well, and we have hope for the future, and for the immense blessing of the impossible made manifest. This winter's hibernation and gestation is quite literal for us here, and we hope for a child of promise, full of life and joy, to be born come summer.

Yuletide blessings to you all, and good surprises all around, to you and all your loves,

--Chelidon

[identity profile] chelidon.livejournal.com 2008-12-26 05:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks much! This has been quite a year, and next year looks even better. We're hopeful, breathing and praying, and enjoying all the many blessings.

[identity profile] chelidon.livejournal.com 2008-12-26 05:40 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks, my friend!

Re: Hurrah!!!!

[identity profile] chelidon.livejournal.com 2008-12-26 05:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you so much, and yes, it's totally magic. We're still a bit afraid to hope too much, you know? But having gotten this far, it's beginning to seem very, wonderfully real.

[identity profile] chelidon.livejournal.com 2008-12-26 05:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks very much! It's been quite a year all around, eh? I hope the year to come is full of wonderful things for us all!

[identity profile] chelidon.livejournal.com 2008-12-26 05:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks very much, Swan, we're really thrilled, and in vast wonder.

[identity profile] chelidon.livejournal.com 2008-12-26 05:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, srsly! :) Thanks very much!

[identity profile] chelidon.livejournal.com 2008-12-26 05:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you very much!

[identity profile] chelidon.livejournal.com 2008-12-26 05:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks, dear, and the same to you from us! May the coming year be full of blessings and wonderful surprises for all of us!

Re: .....yes!.....

[identity profile] chelidon.livejournal.com 2008-12-26 05:46 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you so much, and I will most certainly pass on the hug, and the good wishes! This is quite an adventure, and an amazing and unexpected blessing. The universe certainly does possess infinite capacity to create and surprise!

[identity profile] chelidon.livejournal.com 2008-12-26 05:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you!! And it is just so amazing, we're in constant awe.

[identity profile] chelidon.livejournal.com 2008-12-26 05:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks so much, and the same to you!

[identity profile] chelidon.livejournal.com 2008-12-26 05:58 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you very much! And yeah, the giveaway sure worked for us -- if we'd known, I suspect Claudia would have done it a long time ago... ;>

We're hoping, and ever more hopeful as time goes on...I'll certainly post news as I have it. We've got some good ultrasound pics, but the really good ones should come starting end of Jan.

[identity profile] chelidon.livejournal.com 2008-12-26 05:58 pm (UTC)(link)
:) Thank you, and the same to you!

[identity profile] chelidon.livejournal.com 2008-12-26 05:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks much, Don, for all the good wishes and thoughts. Hey, we have some mead and beer to rack sometime soon, I'm thinkin'!
Edited 2008-12-26 17:59 (UTC)

[identity profile] chelidon.livejournal.com 2008-12-26 06:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you so much, and the same back to ya! It's been quite a year, light and dark, but many very precious blessings, for sure.

[identity profile] chelidon.livejournal.com 2008-12-26 06:01 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks much, my friend, and you're right, we feel very, very blessed, for sure.

[identity profile] chelidon.livejournal.com 2008-12-26 06:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks so much, Suus, and yes, it's been quite a journey, and we're so happy to have gotten this unexpected surprise! I would love to take you up on your very kind offer -- I sent our address via email.

Re: Hurrah!!!!

[identity profile] cerr.livejournal.com 2008-12-26 08:12 pm (UTC)(link)
I'll keep the candle lit :D Fabulous!

[identity profile] elnigma.livejournal.com 2008-12-26 10:53 pm (UTC)(link)
That would be lovely!! ^_^

[identity profile] mystfemme.livejournal.com 2009-01-13 06:48 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm just now catching up with some LJ. CONGRATULATIONS! I am SO excited for you both! I can't think of better parents. What a lucky kid!

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